I'm not sure if it's just me, or maybe it's something that a lot of people go through, but no one warned me about.
Does becoming a "grown up"just seem to happen "así de golpe" (all at once) for everyone? I mean, I know I've been progressively preparing for this time pretty much since I was 16, but I still never saw it coming.
It's like you just wake up one day and realize, 'hey, I'm an adult'. I'm not even really sure what that means though. Is it that I would rather spend a Saturday night in with a good book than out with friends, because 1) I have to pay bills, I'm not wasting money and 2) I have to do stuff in the morning, like clean my apartment and lesson plan, so getting up a 1pm is simply not an option.
Or maybe it's that I realized that I have to... PAY BILLS. It's a horrible thing! Does paying bills make you an adult? Because if so, I'm ok with being a kid for the rest of my life... but I'm guess I'm in too deep now to turn back.
Or better yet, it's getting a job, and using the money from that job to pay said bills, instead of buying that REALLY cute dress I saw the other day... I think I remember my parents warning me about this... something like, "when you get a job, you'll realize the value of money, you can't just blow it on Starbucks and shopping... " don't get me wrong, my parents were always really good at teaching me the value of money, but, still, it's horrible to work so hard for a paycheck that's all going straight to the bank... into someone else's account.
I suppose I'm not really sure what it means to be 'an adult', I just know that, in my few weeks alone to reflect here in Salamanca, I've had this revelation. Or more, doubt. When did this happen?
Either way, I'm still holding my own personal protest to "growing up" by watching Spongebob, as we speak...
Sunday, July 20, 2014
Saturday, July 19, 2014
If I received a grade for keeping up with my blog, I'd get an F
So, I've been horrible at keeping up with my blog. The reason is simple, life keeps happening too fast! I can't keep up with it. So much has happened in the last 6 months, that I don't really know where to begin. So, in case anyone's wondering here's a re-cap of probably the best yet most trying 6 months of my time in Spain so far.
In late January, I was fortunate enough to run into a old friend that I met in September. Another American, we had a lot in common, and started talking and spending a lot of time together. Long story short, we've been inseparable since then. I really don't know where I would be without him at this point. He's become that person I can't live without, and I don't know what I ever did before I met him. He's kind of amazing. =)
We took a lot of trips, Córdoba, Sevilla, Barcelona, Valencia, Segovia, Ávila... And each was absolutely fantastic! We got to see some of the most amazing things I've ever seen, and I'm glad to say I was able to share those experiences with someone who has become one of the most important people in my life.
In between all this flitting around Spain, though, I started my second semester of my Masters. This semester, I had to travel to a city called Valladolid, about an hour or so away from Salamanca. It was extremely stressful, but also a really amazing experience. I was able to get to know the people in my Master's group better, and I really enjoyed the classes as well. So, even though I would come home some days, exhausted and on the verge of tears, in the end, looking back, I wouldn't change it.
Now, I'm still in Salamanca. Everyone has gone home for the summer, but not me! I'm still working, and finishing my Masters Thesis. It gets lonely at times, but I have my puppy here, and he's good company. He seems to be really enjoying Spain! He loves the walks, and meeting other dogs (sometimes) and I know he can't wait for my roommate and her dog to get back. I think he misses his friend.
Well, like I said, this was just a REALLY short re-cap of an amazing 6 months. Hopefully, the next 6, I'll be more proactive with my blog...
P.S. Here's a few pictures of my trips!
Córdoba:
Seville: Even though it rained almost the entire day, we still made the most of it, and had an AMAZING time!
Barcelona/ Valencia:
Segovia:
And lastly Ávila:
In late January, I was fortunate enough to run into a old friend that I met in September. Another American, we had a lot in common, and started talking and spending a lot of time together. Long story short, we've been inseparable since then. I really don't know where I would be without him at this point. He's become that person I can't live without, and I don't know what I ever did before I met him. He's kind of amazing. =)
We took a lot of trips, Córdoba, Sevilla, Barcelona, Valencia, Segovia, Ávila... And each was absolutely fantastic! We got to see some of the most amazing things I've ever seen, and I'm glad to say I was able to share those experiences with someone who has become one of the most important people in my life.
In between all this flitting around Spain, though, I started my second semester of my Masters. This semester, I had to travel to a city called Valladolid, about an hour or so away from Salamanca. It was extremely stressful, but also a really amazing experience. I was able to get to know the people in my Master's group better, and I really enjoyed the classes as well. So, even though I would come home some days, exhausted and on the verge of tears, in the end, looking back, I wouldn't change it.
Now, I'm still in Salamanca. Everyone has gone home for the summer, but not me! I'm still working, and finishing my Masters Thesis. It gets lonely at times, but I have my puppy here, and he's good company. He seems to be really enjoying Spain! He loves the walks, and meeting other dogs (sometimes) and I know he can't wait for my roommate and her dog to get back. I think he misses his friend.
Well, like I said, this was just a REALLY short re-cap of an amazing 6 months. Hopefully, the next 6, I'll be more proactive with my blog...
P.S. Here's a few pictures of my trips!
Córdoba:
Barcelona/ Valencia:
Segovia:
And lastly Ávila:
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